Ooh Karen, that's good too. I'll let you know what he says to that one. Actually I already know: "Yes you DO deserve it. You deserve far better than me." etc etc ad nauseum.
Still, I'm gonna say it. I do not feel pathetic or needy; I just know what I want and I am not willing to settle for dragging someone along with me--I want him upfront with me, enjoying the ride.