The only thing I could come up with was to give subtle signs of desire to him, in order to jolt him out of his stupor. Did I mention I hate this?? If we had a normal, functioning sexual relationship I'd do it every day, every chance I got. However...the knowledge that I am having to do it to remind him to fake desire for me, well, that's just puke yuck and blech. I don't want to have to remind him to desire me!!!!!!!!!!! Wtf is the matter with him?
That is just how I feel. Your H is EXACTLY like mine as far as responding to sexual cues. He has sent me two cards in the last month with sexual innuendo and yet, NO SEX....No follow up fondling even... I just want to say that I echo your frustration in having a wonderful hubby who just doesn't "get it" in this department.
