I know all you are saying, and I totally agree. I am not in C for myself but would like it if hubby and I were in C together. He refused to go to C before and I don't see him changing his mind about that now, but you never know. I have been pretty content with the small changes taking place over the past 6 months. We had no physical contact at all for over 10 yrs. We have not gotten used to each other yet. We were virtual strangers. Its getting better, just slow going. I know its time soon to take it up a notch. Maybe I will talk to him about this on the weekend coming up. He was away visiting his mother and missed our anniversary and we are supposed to go out to dinner so maybe that would be a good time.
