This started years ago when he really started having ED problems most of the time and left the bed to sleep on the couch every night. Eventually he got his own bed and put it in the spare room and made it his bedroom. We have been estranged for almost 15 years. Now several of the dogs sleep with him and I have tried to talk to him about putting them up at night and coming back into the bed with me, but he refuses to put them up at night. Maybe its his way of avoiding anything physical unless HE wants it. And then its nothing to write home about.
