Quote: I want it all. I know I sound utterly selfish, but I don't want accidental sex for the rest of my life.
PLEASE get over the idea that wanting this is selfish. It is NORMAL, not selfish!! Our LD partners are twisting our universes and trying to make us feel that what we want is wrong and selfish, but it is not. May I remind you of the "Happy Sex" thread. The world those people live in is normal. The world we live in is not. Don't define your normal sexual desire as "selfishness." That hurts!
Annette, question... you said he does stuff like "changing the sheets on my bed." Do you have separate beds? Just nosy...
