I hear ya. My H shows actual desire about once a month, or month and a half. That seems to hold him till the next time. He has lately been more attentive towards me, doing things for me like changing the sheets on my bed, stuff like that. Also he has been giving me more hugs, nothing sensual, just a hug here and there. He is very happy. I am not exactly happy, lets just say I am content right now. Little by little things around my house are changing, he does more things with me, like going to the store or out to dinner here and there where before we did absoutely nothing together. I can be patient. I know I have to eventually call him on some things, but right now its ok.
