I have a suggestion and a rhetorical question for you.
The suggestion is to double your schedule. The reasoning being to force to the surface, the underlying issues with your relationship.
The question; how do you think she would respond?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.