I've been following your story on the other board, after seeing your link to it on this one the other day. I may have some insight for you as to what your husband may be thinking, cuz in a lot of ways I AM HIM (altho I'll warn you, it may not be what you want to hear). But I don't want to hijack CeMar's thread any futher. Let me find yours, and I'll respond to you there.
