I could be wrong, but where has he ever said he hasn't discussed it (even repeatedly) with his wife?
I think sometimes if you don't post the drama-style convos in detail on here, some posters are assuming that some of us have never done "The Talk" (even repeatedly), or shared the utter depth of our feelings, sadness and anger with our spouses.
But I will agree with you, if CeMar is NOT having these discussions with his wife, then he has no business gritching about 'em here.
I also think that the "spewing awful things about your mate" needs to be taken with a grain of salt, as I think many people come here only after they're utterly despondent and yes, even outright ANGRY, with their spouses. At least I take it that way.
