Ok, some one needs to stick up for CeMar, and what he brings to the discussion and the realities of our situations. Unlike most of us, CeMar can identify what he wants, direct and quantifiable. He also is in the situation of wanting desire, not just sex. This might be alien to some on here, or could sound ‘greedy’. But to those in that situation I can definitely relate. Based on the responses to my threads this isn’t that uncommon.
Can most of you list what is wrong and what you would like without getting hung up in hyperbole, or just saying ‘more sex’. How do you know if you got it until you know what ‘it’ is for you. I could see how this comes off as a list of demands or conditions, don’t beat up on a guy for being weak and then chastise him for ‘listing demands’.
The fundamental problem many of us have is we would bluff with our relationships, in other words we either aren’t ready or never will tell someone we love to do this or I’m leaving.
Does this leave the other person in control, of sex yes but not of the relationship?
I find it hard to believe that LD women are doing it out of control as some kind of power play, it might be we are just saddled with a woman who fundamentally will never meet our levels of desire, as I said before is willing without wanting enough?
