CeMar...does your W have this much trouble getting you to listen too? Your stuck on the fact that you want your W to become what you perceive an HD person to be...you have tunnel vision....you aren't even trying the things that people are suggesting who ARE managing to have a successful sex-life and better relationship with their spouse.
If you are expecting your wife to magically return to what you remember her to be without you putting any effort into it...your setting yourself, and her, up for failure.
