Whenever I am not feeling well things seem to take on a skewered perception.....So, I hope you are both plodding toward recovery and can keep yourselves moving ever forward. Take very good care of yourself please. We all are rooting for you and want you to have as much forward progress as possible and you need all your strength for that. SO EAT!! Exercise, get plenty of rest and try and have some fun too!!
Are you keeping a solutions journal?
I found it so helpful (although sometimes painful) after my H and I reconcilled to be able to look back at times when we ran into rough patches to see what I might do, what I had failed to do and what I might not have thought of. Along with the obvious, which is to remind me of how far we have come.
Of course my friends here have been a great help there!!
Sometimes when so many others reminded me.....I felt downright silly for expecting so much, and seeing so little!!
Once reconcilliation has occurred........sometimes that's when the hardest work begins!!
