You are going thru it this week for sure. Man oh man......it is tough to keep the heart strong or at least steady on course when faced with the OM....in her apt. But...that IS more information for your head/heart to sift through. I like what Slowly had to say about being more mysterious.
Quote: but I can see the walls crumbling over there - the major effort on her part, with expert coaching from the rest, has been the fine art of mystery - driving the WA crrraazzzy wondering what they are passing up.
This is so important. What would CAW NOT expect you to do? What's a good 180 you could pull this week-end....that doesn't appear revengeful....something calm, cool and collect? She might expect you to cancel your date. She might expect you to be cool toward her.....maybe a "whatever" attitude would suffice, just some random thoughts. Maybe chatting about vague social plans and new friends you are getting to know....or groups, clubs....classes....places where she might wonder IF you are meeting more interesting women and expanding your horizons. Make her wonder that in some fashion....even IF you haven't actually gone there yet....
BTW, maybe it is time to do some of that.
Keep us posted how how the week-end goes. Hang in there...you know we are all here for you and only want the best for you. Glad you and D11 are dong so well....that's huge, keep that close to your heart.
