Dear KAW - It seems like yet another majot roadblock, doesn't it? I'm so sorry you are being to sorely tried I keep thinking what CAW gets from the om-fantasy and can only come back to the hoary chestnut of 'doing her own thing' - being in control, etc.

Could it be that with you she feels safe, feels she knows what is coming next, even with all these nice dates etc. Has she been exposed to not knowing what KAW is up to? I've just finished getting caught up with GBO over at newcomers, and I was certain her H would be a real tough one, but I can see the walls crumbling over there - the major effort on her part, with expert coaching from the rest, has been the fine art of mystery - driving the WA crrraazzzy wondering what they are passing up.

It is the only thing I can think that CAW is doing - cake eating, in short.

Slowly

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