Quote:

My head tells me that line is drawn when she pursues OM after making the choice for a S. My head tells me how can I continue to be her friend, if what she does continues to hurt me. Why would I want to be her friend when all I get from it is pain? My head tells me I should have nothing more to do with her. My head tells me I should let her have him, because she deserves a womanizer that will end up cheating on her one day, so she can experience the pain she has caused me? My head tells me, "why the hell would you want to go on a date with her tomorrow night?" My head tell me I had enough." My head says, "Why don't I just give her the d@mn D?"

Why can't my heart follow my head?????

Some imput please...

'til later,
KAW

P.S. I had some reservations starting this thread here in this forum, bu being in "Piecing" for two years, it where I have my strongest following


Hi KAW,

Sorry I don't have any input for you but I do really understand where you are coming from. Even after the d it is hard to decide whether to try staying friends when their actions still cause pain.

{{{{{{{{KAW}}}}}}}}}}

I am glad you managed some strikes.

Take care of yourself because you are a wonderful person.

I decided I am trying to piece me so that it is still ok to be here where my friends and support are.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"