Thanks Chris, we all get to the end of our ropes...*gazes in mirror*. Do a search on adrenal fatigue. Alternative healing wellness drs have a way to boost the adrenal system and it DOES work!
You go to the counsellor and get some counselling and MAYBE if she sees you REALLY trying she will too.
Is there something on your psyique that needs toning? Invite her to help you work on it? Hold dn your ankles for situps or crunches kinda thing? (whatever it is make it look hard)
OH figure out what is important. Remember the playing an instrument in an orchestra example someone gave me for the dissapointment of ED?...now whats important? you playing your instrument or making wonderful music WITH your wife? Or joining a HardRock Band and bailing? (or would that be balling?)
Have you discussed leaving with your wife? If you have I'm betting you did it on the "W's fault cuz she won't give me any" point of view. Not the "I may in fact be sick for I need release like a drug and I don't care where I put it so let me go. Its not your fault wify." point of view. --Possibly somewhere inbetween lies the truth. Find it.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
