TNC wrote: -------------- I already know that you think anyone who has an affair is a selfish person and unworthy of their spouse for the rest of their lives, so I expected these comments. Won't I always need to be reminded that I cheated, I loved another woman, and now I'm paying for the rest of my M? Should my W kick me out, file for a D, and "set me free" or would that be too good for me? Please, enlighten me. --------------
Ok, I will tell you what my problem with you is.
Selfish is as selfish does.
Your posts exude entitlement.
I can understand that we are all here because of being sex starved in our marriages. I understand the anger, I even understand some selfishness.
Beyond that is where I see you.
My last honest piece of advice for you: If you want to have great sex with your wife, then forget about yourself for a while, and fall back in love with your wife. I am talking about the real person she is, the one you married, not the traumatized version that you helped create.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
