annette and everyone else who got pissed from that posting: sorry. next time, I'll hit the "back" button before I post crap like that. My last entry was a vent/rant/pissy-mood posting. Of course it came out wrong. I wrote it at work, which was stupid. I'm not that much of a bastard really.
Liese wrote:
Quote: Get her into counseling and you too. Stress/adrenal fatigue can tire and put on weight without trying.
She doesn't seem to want to go. It's her decision. I've suggested it a few times.
Quote: What caused her to be depressed in the first place?
My affair with OW for 2 years and physical/chemical changes after D3 was born.
Quote: Exercise with her? Walk with her?
I sure would. Once again, it's her decision. I've suggested it.
Quote: What could you offer a 20 year old that another 20 year old couldnt?
The truth is, probably nothing. I don't want more children to take care of. I'm not in the same generation.
NOP wrote:
Quote: Your spouse has been through hell for a while now. She has tolerated your affair as well. Frankly, I am amazed at the woman.
I already know that you think anyone who has an affair is a selfish person and unworthy of their spouse for the rest of their lives, so I expected these comments. Won't I always need to be reminded that I cheated, I loved another woman, and now I'm paying for the rest of my M? Should my W kick me out, file for a D, and "set me free" or would that be too good for me? Please, enlighten me.
W says that she has forgiven me for the affair, and I believe her. I have no choice but to believe her. OW is just a bunch of memories now. I'm not looking for another woman. I still have hope for reconciliation in most ways with my W. I guess I have to wait another few years and see what W wants to do. Or something.
