TNC wrote: ------------- Well, she needs to try harder and get into better shape. I'm giving her a year to "shape up" and service my sexual needs properly, and if she doesn't, I'm dropping the bomb on her with divorce papers. This is such BS living with someone who doesn't feel like taking care of herself. I deserve better... some hot 20-something woman who wants to f*ck my brains out twice a day would be nice. Looking at my W and not wanting to touch her 'cause I'm turned off by her body and her blah moods SUCKS. -------------
That is about the most selfish, disgusting thing I think I have read on this forum.
It is one thing to be angry with your spouse. It is quite another to degrade a person that has gone through so much, told to us by you.
Your spouse has been through hell for a while now. She has tolerated your affair as well. Frankly, I am amazed at the woman.
She is motivated enough to kick the SSRIs via the short route. I don't know her motivations, but that is seriously gutsy in my book.
Chris, if you ever want a chance at *any* functional relationship, you will have to learn to focus on someone other than yourself.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
