I think you are "owning her problems" too much. She realizes something is not right with her mood and has tried various AD's...that is her way of trying. Now she wants to see how she feels without the help of the medication...she is recognizing there is no easy cure for feeling good. She is trying.
Well, she needs to try harder and get into better shape. I'm giving her a year to "shape up" and service my sexual needs properly, and if she doesn't, I'm dropping the bomb on her with divorce papers. This is such BS living with someone who doesn't feel like taking care of herself. I deserve better... some hot 20-something woman who wants to f*ck my brains out twice a day would be nice. Looking at my W and not wanting to touch her 'cause I'm turned off by her body and her blah moods SUCKS.