Chris,
If your W is too tired, stressed, depressed and demotivated to be interested in ML to you, then why is she quitting her AD's cold turkey? What does she expect to be different by doing this?

I know absolutely nothing about Paxil, but does it make one feel tired or demotivated?

I don't understand her motivation in quitting the medication and I sure as hell don't understand her method. Is she trying to make her life unpleasant?