Yes, your ranting makes sense. I guess I was searching for a way to convey this to him without hurt. Maybe there is no way to do that.
I have a feeling he will say something like he won't get it checked because of all the heart medications he takes, viagra will not be an option. I think in his minds eye he feels there is nothing he can do. I can only hope that by talking to him, maybe he will go get it checked out.
I have thought about our situation for years and cannot help feeling his sexual problems come from control issues. He cannot simply lay back and let me pleasure him. I get alot of my pleasure from making him arroused and he just can't seem to let me do that. Any control I have whatsoever he squelches.
If anyone else has idea about this, please, speak up
