Good to know that you wouldn't turn down sex even with certain ills. The dilemma that I'm faced with is knowing when initiation is OK and when to back off. After many many months of "signals" I've been trained to "back off" more times than not. These days, if I hear "oww my stomach" or "owww my head" or "ohh I am soooo tired" from my W, I take that comment as a "stop sign" for any activity that evening.
