IBS, ahhhhhhhhhhh fun thing that is. I have IBS associated with another ailment, Fibromyalgia. But you know even with all that I don't think I would turn down sex LOL But I guess thats the difference between LD and HD. Now if H was more HD and wanted sex everyday, I might be inclined to want to cuddle instead. I don't know, I have never been faced with that delima