HD: serious talking and working together sounds like productive use of time to me - especially my past year of reading R books, observing, thinking, formulating plans for dealing with M and R issues, and seeing how different LM scenarios play out. IMO, the only obstacle is my W's opinion that "nothing's wrong." I can't say, "W you're just fooling yourself when you say that." I just have to wait for that lightbulb to go on on its own, I guess.
