You'd be amazed how many of us there are out there I actually found out my next door neighbor, whom I've recently beocome friends with is in pretty much the same situation I'm in. You could have blown me over when she confided in me LOL.
One more woman out there who has a husband with a lower SD than hers. AAAAAGGGHH
Anyway...I digress. We're all here to help Chris and I'd be happy to share my war stories...but I'm hoping that soon I can be doing more romancing than fighting, that's the direction we're finally heading But it's taken A LOT of work this past year, on both of our parts to be fair (even though it's felt mostly on my part...to me anyway.)