Indeed, there is never a good time for me to wake W up from her "dreamy life." Then she'd have to face unpleasant tasks, such as changing. We all know change is difficult. Now, if I were a selfish bastard, I'd be asking for things like dinner 5 nights a week and peace and quiet while she put the kids to sleep and weekends where I could actually sit and watch a football game in its entirety while she wrangled kids. Instead, I want my basic needs to be met and not ignored. Heh, that doesn't sound too difficult, does it? *sigh*