No, she doesn't HP. I've been thinking about what I want and weighing options and trying to figure out how not to sound like an ass when I tell her what I want. I know what I want now. I've got the "speaking from the ME point-of-view" down pat. Finding that "right time" to talk is tricky. Mornings are dicey - with the mad rush to get ready for work and get out of the house. Evenings are nearly as bad - the mad rush to get dinner ready + get the kids to bed takes a lot of energy. After the kids are asleep is about the only time that I have, and that's the time just before bed - not exactly the best time to be talking about weighty issues.
Anyway, I could make excuses like most people, but I won't. This year has taught me a lot about myself and a lot about my W. Next year is the year that I need to see some changes for the better in my M. Otherwise, I may be unable to continue in it.
