Well it's nearing the end of the year, and I've waited patiently for my W to decide that she wants to stop living in depression. I've offered to help her enjoy sex more. I've offered to make MC appointments for us. I've suggested that she see a personal C "just to talk" about things that she can't talk with me about. I've been supportive of her switching from one SSRI antidepressant to another, just to "find the right one" for her. I've kept doing all of the chores/tasks that I usually do around the house, even though I might have wanted to let things fall to sh*t. I can't repeat another year like this one without questioning my own mental sanity.
What to do? Talk. Communicate. Give W ultimatums and time frames for her to improve her attitude with appropriate consequences attached. Pull the roots and hope the weed dies.
