Thanks for sharing the history. It is very interesting. I am very glad you two are working through this together. As you have discovered, the answers are inside your marriage, not outside.

Marriage is hard enough with two. Adding in third parties makes it near impossible :-)

All the best!
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.