My wife to is obsessed with 3 children. THEY are the focus of her life, NOT me. I have tried to tell her that she is the primary focus of my life and that I expect her to make me the primary focus of her life, and she just looks at me like I am some sort of idiot. I guess us guys are just supposed to take care of ourselves. What is it about LD women that makes them forget how to be a WOMEN?