I went back and read your original post again and it said something along the lines of "I wish her happiness didn't have so much to do with my own happiness." I think I misinterpreted what you were trying to say there. Sorry!
It's ok, I was a little vague. FF had mentioned that my W is probably sensing that I am not happy. I am not happy mostly because W is not working on getting out of her rut. So, it's cyclical... a Catch 22.
Quote: So you are saying that she brings you down? Is that it?
No, I don't think W brings me down, per se. She casts a gloom over things. Living with a depressed person is difficult.
Quote: What are some ways that you can be happy that don't involve her moods? (short of an A, of course!)
Uhhh... gee, funny question. I'll have to think about that. I like your suggestions, though.
Quote: Whaddya think.
Can you be my W? I promise we can try to be like the NOPs.
