Quote: I'm sorry Chris, I don't mean to be cruel. I know you do a lot for your W. But if you're not happy, she can feel that just as well as you can.
I know it stinks big time to have a S who has obvious needs that we can't do anything about, and they won't either.
I do so much on a daily basis to make things run smoothly in the Moo household, but W isn't happy anyway, so I feel like it doesn't matter what I do anymore. Then, when I forget to do something or (like this morning) don't get to it before W notices, W makes a comment like, "how come you didn't do [XYZ]??" My answer this morning: "I just didn't get to it yet."
I wish W's happiness didn't have so much to do with my own happiness. Then again, she looks to others all the time for validation of herself, so why am I surprised? I just feel like anything I do will not be enough.
