Uhhhh... she doesn't want to ML 3 times per week, I do (well, at least 2 times ). W is content to go 3 weeks between LM sessions, and it's only when I wait the 3 weeks that she'll "seek me out" and initiate. Otherwise, it's alllll me baby... the initiating machine.

It is my interpretation that she goes along with the LM because she wants to be able to say in the future, "hey I never denied you when you wanted sex." If, as during my September experiment, we ML 7 times in 2 weeks, the last 2-3 times "feel like" mercy sex on W's part, as if she got tired of it and just went through the motions to appease me. I don't know where desire fits in.

Am I speaking Greek? Hmmmmmm.


- Chris.