HP wrote:
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Have you ever told your wife that you don't like the normal routine for ML (the porno, massager, etc)?


It's not that I don't like it (I do! I do! )... but... EVERY time? I suppose there's something to be said about finding a good recipe and sticking with it, but one of my problems is that W seems not to want variety. I must bring up this "lack of variety" in a kind way so that she doesn't see it as criticism.

barney wrote:
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I agree with HP about the porn, Chris. If my W absolutely HAD to watch others having sex to get ready for me, I would want to be one of the ones she was watching. At least then I would be "warmed up" when she got there and wouldn't be left out waiting for her first three Os.


I don't mind it all that much. If she's not turned on by me or my body, oh well.


- Chris.


I wonder how she would respond to that suggestion?