Maybe wife's Love Language is Physical Touch. Next time you feel like saying that her As were a symptom of reckless, inappropriate sexual behavior, rub her arm instead. Maybe the association with the good feeling it gave her previously will prevent her from responding with how her As were conscious actions based on her feeling that your M was over and that it was your fault for making her feel that way and you I had been a good H she wouldn't have needed to go to the doctor and would never have been misdiagnosed Bi-polar, so she should have never married you, this whole thing was your fault.
