Feeling sick this morning - slept in and took a long time leaving for work and W's cell phone rang while W and I were talking. I answered it and heard, "oh &%*@" and they hung up. I knew who it was but didn't say anything. W was right there and got pretty defensive. I didn't say much - and didn't raise my voice in any of my replies to Ws comments.

W really pursued me to try and convince me that she was not doing anything bad. She eventually steered the conversation (she was doing almost all the talking anyway) to me going through her purse.

At first I acted innocent, but didn't act very well. W said OM asked for his house key back for security reasons (the one I threw in his driveway - I must have missed ). I asked W why she didn't ask me about it if she knew I had taken it.

W did say she was committed to our M, and that she was scared to end R with OM badly - that she couldn't talk to me about the reasons why. W said she usually turns her phone off, and sometimes she calls him back and sometimes she doesn't.

plk