W has had a really, really rough couple of days dealing with the new knowledge of someone talking about her A from a year ago.
She has thanked me several times for being good to her Sun - hugging her, scratching her, making tea for her - but has not acknowledged she was absolutely horrible to me.
I tried to call her yesterday afternoon to get a number I needed that I left at home. She didn't answer at home or her cell. She did call me later and said she went to our friends but that the friend wasn't home, that I must have called while she was out of the truck.
Last night was "normal". W acknowledged several times that she was happy we were getting along and she could tell I was making an effort, but she still didn't "feel sexual" toward me. I told her I was trying, but needed her help.
W said several times that I do not satisfy her needs. I asked what she meant by that and pointed out several things that I've done to try and meet what I thought her needs were, and if there was something else she just needed to tell me. Conv ended well - but no real progress made, I'm still in the dark regarding her unmet needs.
Today I called to tell W about S12 having an overdue homework assignment that he needed to work on as soon as he got home (S12's teacher emailed me at work), so he could have it done before karate practice. No answer.
I waited an hour and called again, and reached her on her cell at Blockbuster - which is right next to OM's work ?
So now I'm wondering if "You are not meeting my needs" really means, "I'm getting what I need from OM again, I don't need you".
W ended phone call with ILY, which made me feel a little better, but she was saying ILY before she would leave and go to OMs.
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