While being still according to Psalm 37 in my own situation, I had to learn that being still does NOT mean being passive or a door mat. We must let the Lord do His work, but we must do what we can also. So I continue to do things differently as they come to me to see what works. Some changes are good and some not so good. I try to stick with the good changes that work for me, but I do my best to stay out of the Lord's way too.
Time is still a necessary part of the healing and changing process. But you are so very right, time alone is not enough.
Praying for many blessings for you and W, LG
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
