HP confessed:
The ONLY thing I did in our marital home was cook supper and I couldn't even do that. (he bought me a subscription to a cooking magazine that 1st year, lol) I did not clean anything, do any laundry, mow the lawn, etc. NOTHING.
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ONLY a LDH would care. You were having or willing to have sex multiple times every day!

I understand where CeMar is coming from, too. I have the same "I'm trapped and it will never be better" days as he has. But I have better days, too. I don't see him having any of those.

CeMar, you HAVE to stand up for yourself at some point. If you won't, then you have to take equal responsibility for your sitch. I understand your unwillingness to leave your kids, but you can make a stand for the future, just like HP did.

Good luck, buddy. I know how hard it is to feel unwanted.