Lassie,
No I knew exactly what you meant. I was just relating my own story which is that I had to change myself in addition to laying it on the line.

I see you did the same exact thing!

In fact, with us, it is still very much a work in progress. I would almost think that all marriages are a work in progress, all the time.

Do you ever get to the end of the road and say, Ok this is it..we don't need to do anything more for each other?
I wouldn't think so!

Honeypot, who is paradoxically more tired now that the baby is starting to sleep through the night. ????