I hope you don't think that I was trying to imply that if he somehow found that magical need of hers that wasn't being met that she'd somehow do a sexual 180...that certainly wasn't my intent. I simply think that it can be a catalyst to change...know what I mean?
I definitely agree with you on the majority of what you said...I've often wondered if CeMar has actually communicated to his wife what he wants and what's lacking for him in his marriage as you did...you can't get much clearer than "I started really trying to be a better wife as well as telling him in clear language what the stakes were. Here is what I said: I will pursue an annulment when our kids are older if we can't get our sex life back on track."....you go girl! I bet that was a very difficult thing for you to do too!
I had to tell my H "if we don't seek help we won't be having a 2nd anniversary!" That seemed pretty clear to him too
