There are lots of things I can do. Here is a list:
1) Pay the bills on time and make her financially secure. 2) Play with my boys, get closer to them, and correct them in a better fashion. 3) Communication. 4) Accept her the way she is(she wants this not me). 5) get into better shape. 6) get a better job? 7) Stand up to her (Working on this all the time now). 8) Take her out more. (But nothing ever happens for me. Our dates always fizzle out). 9) She wants me to get my happiness elsewhere. Unfortunately, there is NO substitute for the hapiness of having a lover. I already have hobbies and activities, and they can not substitute for a great sexual relationship. 10) Work on the house. 11) Be more romantic. This is a little hard since my wife does not like to touch me or kiss me. 12) She would like me to be more like her, interested in doing activities and staying busy, rather then being interested in sex and affection. She basically wants a LD man.
