Quote: My wife does not have any physical needs, so therefore, when it comes to change, she has no physical motivation like men do.
CeMar...I guarantee there is a "need" that is not being met for her, true it may not be a physical need...emotional needs are equally important. Ok, I can hear you laughing at that last statement...but I'm telling you that it's true. If a woman does not feel that her needs are being met emotionally it's a HUGE turnoff for her. You have to stop equating what your physical needs are to her...that won't work!
Quote: Women have known this for ever, when sex is on the line, you can get a man to do just about anything.
Now that's interesting...apparantly my LDH doesn't know about this.
Quote: My wife had desire a long time ago. When she had desire, everything was great. Then she had kids and lost her desire. Without desire, she is a completely different women, and that would be a very unappealing woman.
Ouch!!! That's harsh CeMar...so there's very little that is appealing about your W besides sex? Do you really mean that?
Quote: What can I do that would turn her back into HD?
I repeat (sigh) find the need that you aren't meeting...stop assuming it has to be a physical need of hers either.
Quote: Sex without the desire is pointless.
No it's not it's a starting point, but it is pointless if you go at it with the attitude you have.
