I have to agree with Dr. Laura. It is extremely hard to motivate a LD women, unless she WANTS to be motivated. The problem is that us guys are trying to get them to change their habits when there is nothing that us guys have to offer a women that they physically need. My sexuality is HEAVILY driven by chemicals and i will do ANYTHING to get my needs met. My wife does not have any physical needs, so therefore, when it comes to change, she has no physical motivation like men do. This is why Dr. Laura says that it is far easier for the women to change a marriage then it is for the man. Women have known this for ever, when sex is on the line, you can get a man to do just about anything.
My wife had desire a long time ago. When she had desire, everything was great. Then she had kids and lost her desire. Without desire, she is a completely different women, and that would be a very unappealing woman. So how do LD women change back to being HD? What can I do that would turn her back into HD? Sex without the desire is pointless. Marriage without desire is pointless.
