Quote: knee-jerk reaction, out of habit at this point.
Could be. Kind of like David Spade in those "Capital One" frequent flyer commercials, with "NO" signs plastered all over his cubicle, FresNO, ReNO, and my favorite, the little nodder doll who just shakes his head.
I need to reframe the question: "Would you like to avoid making love with me?" NO. Allllllrighty, then! Or maybe, Would you not like to not make love with me?