Honeypot:

I think that feminism does much harm to relationships. I can see it in my own wife, that she believes that men and women want the same things in life and relationships. She wants her sons to talk through their emotions, which of course men don't do. She also thinks that what SHE wants in a relationship is what I should also want. After reading as much as I have, it is very obvious that men and women have virtually nothing in common and that you have to learn what the other sex wants. She does not understand this yet. This is why I can tell her what I need from a relationship and she looks at me cluelessly. She can not understand my male needs in any way. I can tell from the way she interacts with me that she has no freakin clue as to what male emotional needs are.