Hi HD,
It was out of a real book, so I can't send the link. I do think that, in this instance, having it be your biological child that she raised from birth would make a difference. She can always blame your sons' behavior on their mother, you know?

Oh well, it doesn't matter. I just found it interesting and wondered if your wife would have had a similar reaction.

As far as your convo from last weekend, wow, HD I think you are really on to something. If she is sounding (dare I say it?) almost contrite b/c she won't ML to you then you are doing something right. Whatever you're doing, keep it up. She's melting!
I don't think she's on her way to becoming HD, but I think the seed is being planted in her brain that perhaps this is not the right way to go about being married.

Good luck and have fun with the kids this week!

HP