Hairy, I thought of you this past weekend as I was reading a small article. It was written by a woman and the very first line was "I used to be a radical feminist." Then she went on to describe how she was finding herself changing because she had a son of her own. It was opening her eyes to the fact that men and women are just different and that you cannot chalk up these vast physical and chemical differences to culture and a patriarchal society, etc. It was very humbling for her to watch her son grow into a MAN (he was a teenager while she was writing) in front of her eyes and know that she raised him right and yet...yet...he was still turning into a man!! It was funny, despite the fact that she was not writing it to be humor. Kindof a "oh dear, what a shock for this lady.." type of read.
Anyway, I wondered if having a son would have changed your dw's mind about the nature of men?