NOP is onto something wrt strength. No whining, no fear of ambiguity. Remember we were talking a while ago about exercising? My recent happiness has come at the same time as increased fitness. I'm also letting her do more thing, becoming less of a controller. All these things help give a sense of confidence.
If she wants to hug, I don't think it is at all a sign of weakness to hug back.
A real feminist wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
